spouses with secrets

My wife cheated on me with another soldier while I was deployed. They're now claiming our spousal benefits. They're not married. What can I do?

Discover what really happens when a spouse cheats during deployment and claims spousal benefits without being married. This in-depth, plain-English guide explains military and civilian benefit rules, fraud risks, legal options, and practical steps service members can take to protect their finances, benefits, and future.
February 6, 2026 Jack Hawkins