I’m okay but my husband may need long term care. What happens to our house if only one of us needs Medicaid?

I’m okay but my husband may need long term care. What happens to our house if only one of us needs Medicaid?


January 19, 2026 | Jane O'Shea

I’m okay but my husband may need long term care. What happens to our house if only one of us needs Medicaid?


The Uncertainty You Face

You’re retired, healthy, and living independently, but your husband is starting to show signs that he may soon need long term care. This would almost certainly entail applying for Medicaid. Your biggest concern is your home. It’s your largest asset, your stability, and possibly your children’s inheritance. The thing you’re trying to understand is: whether one spouse needing care could force the sale or loss of the family home.

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Medicaid Looks At Spouses Separately And Together

When one spouse applies for Medicaid long term care, the state looks at both individual and joint assets. However, special spousal protection rules apply. These rules are in place specifically to stop a healthy spouse from becoming impoverished just because the other spouse needs expensive medical care.

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The Home Is Often Exempt

In many cases, the primary residence is considered an exempt asset when one spouse needs Medicaid and the other spouse goes on living in the home. As long as you stay in the house, Medicaid generally doesn’t require you to sell it during your lifetime.

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Why The Healthy Spouse Matters So Much

Medicaid rules strongly protect the community spouse, meaning the spouse that’s not receiving care. The program isn’t set up to leave you homeless. As long as you live in the house, it’s usually protected from being counted against Medicaid eligibility.

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Ownership Structure Doesn’t Change Protection

Whether the home is jointly owned or the deed is officially held by the spouse entering care, the result is normally the same while you’re living there. Medicaid is more focused on occupancy than title. Your continued residence is one of the strongest protections the home has.

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Equity Limit Can Still Matter

Some states impose a home equity limit when evaluating Medicaid eligibility. However, that limit typically doesn’t apply when a spouse is still living in the home. This is one of the best examples of how spousal protections override the standard Medicaid asset rules.

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The House Isn’t Automatically Taken

There’s a common fear going around that once one spouse goes into a nursing home, the house will immediately be targeted for sale by the state. That usually doesn’t happen. While you live in the home, Medicaid generally can’t force its sale or place a lien on it.

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Estate Recovery Happens Later Not Now

Medicaid estate recovery usually takes place only after the recipient and the other spouse have both passed away. Estate recovery is typically delayed while you’re still alive. The threat to the house is more a matter of long-term planning than needing to worry about its impending loss.

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Doing Nothing Can Still Carry Risk

Although the house is protected while you live there, doing nothing at all can also create problems later. If you die first, the home may lose its protected status. This is where planning ahead can reduce the chances of running into a nasty surprise for your family later.

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Selling The House Changes Everything

If you choose to sell the house while your husband is receiving Medicaid, then the situation changes. In that case the proceeds might no longer be exempt. Cash from a sale can count as an asset and possibly disrupt your husband’s Medicaid eligibility. Any sale of the home should be carefully planned.

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Downsizing Requires Careful Timing

Many older couples consider downsizing to simplify life. While this is totally understandable, selling and buying a new home during Medicaid coverage requires a great deal of forethought and precision. Mistimed moves can accidentally convert formerly exempt assets into countable ones.

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Transferring The Home Can Trigger Penalties

Gifting or transferring the home to children can trigger Medicaid lookback penalties. Even if your intent is inheritance planning, transfers made during the lookback period can delay coverage and cause some serious financial gaps.

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Trusts Aren’t A Quick Fix

Chances are you’ve heard suggestions about placing the home in a trust. It’s true that certain trusts can work to keep the home from affecting Medicaid eligibility, but the timing and structure of such an action matter. Improperly created trusts or late transfers can harm you more than it protects you.

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Your Income Still Matters

Even if the house is protected, income rules also still apply. Spousal income allowances are set up to ensure you have enough to live on, but income planning is also important to make sure you have enough to cover property taxes, insurance, and maintenance.

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You Have To Maintain The Home

Medicaid doesn’t pay for home upkeep. You remain responsible for taxes, utilities, and repairs. Planning ahead of time for these ongoing costs ensures that your home remains viable and protected long term.

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If You Can No Longer Live There

The time may one day come when you have to leave the home; or you may even require care yourself. In that case the protection usually ends. Then the home may become countable or subject to estate recovery planning decisions.

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Talk With An Elder Law Attorney

An elder law attorney can quickly and clearly explain how your state applies spousal protection rules. Medicaid rules vary from state to state, and professional guidance is money and time well spent that can prevent mistakes that cost you thousands later.

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Planning Early Gives You Flexibility

Planning ahead before the situation reaches the crisis point gives you a lot more flexibility. Once care begins, you’ll see your range of options start to narrow. This is why early planning helps you protect the home while preserving your Medicaid eligibility and saving both you and your spouse a whole lot of stress.

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Emotional Stress Is Part Of This Process

The idea of compromising or losing ownership of your home is a serious source of stress and compounds the emotional strain of whatever illness or infirmity your spouse may be suffering. Knowing the rules and how to apply them can replace panic with clarity and confidence as you head forward into the future.

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Final Remarks Before You Decide

If it’s only your husband who needs long term care, the house is usually protected while you live there. The greater risk comes from unplanned decisions later. With careful planning and restraint, you can remain secure in your home while your husband receives the care he needs.

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