money mistakes

I paid $15K for solar panels and they barely work. Is there any financial upside left?

Sometimes, personal finance feels like a rollercoaster you never agreed to ride, and you’re gripping the bar tighter than you’d like. That’s exactly how I felt after dropping $15,000 on solar panels—a supposedly “smart investment”—only to discover they barely work. Before you write me off as a cautionary tale, let’s dive into the details and explore whether there’s still any financial silver lining left in this cloudy situation.
September 9, 2025 Jack Hawkins

I co-signed a lease for my cousin. He skipped town, and now the landlord’s coming after me. What are my options?

Co-signing a lease for someone can seem like a nice thing to do, particularly if they're your family—you're helping them out, right? Well, not in this case. If your cousin who's never been much of a person of their word has decided to skip town on a lease that you co-signed, you're up the creek without a paddle. Here's how to handle it.
September 3, 2025 Jack Hawkins

I took out a secret personal loan to cover our wedding costs. My partner still doesn’t know. How do I come clean?

Paying for a wedding is an incredibly stressful experience. Even if you've got the support of family members, you could still end up paying an arm and a leg for your fairy tale day. If you've found yourself and taken the disastrous decision to take out a personal loan to pay for your wedding—without telling your partner... Well, this article might be for you. Let's explore how to have that conversation and what to do to fix your mistake.
August 13, 2025 Jack Hawkins

My son stole my wedding ring and pawned it. He says it was for rent. What now?

You just found out your son stole and pawned your wedding ring—something irreplaceable, personal, and symbolic. Whether he says it was for rent or something else, your heart is broken. So what now? This isn't just about recovering a ring—it’s about navigating betrayal, boundaries, and possibly even legal consequences. Let’s walk through this together.
August 12, 2025 Jack Hawkins

My sister lied to the rest of the family and said I’m rich so they’d stop helping me. Now I’m broke and alone. Help?

When someone you trust twists the truth and leaves you isolated—especially when money is involved—the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Imagine being painted as "rich" by your own sister just so your family would stop offering support, only to be left broke, misunderstood, and completely alone. It’s a betrayal that cuts deep and complicates not just your finances, but your relationships, identity, and sense of belonging.
August 12, 2025 Jack Hawkins

I used credit cards to fund my wedding. We're now divorced, and the debt is stuck with me. What should I do now?

So, you paid for the DJ, the flowers, the dance floor—and now you’re divorced, staring down a mountain of credit card debt you funded with love and hope. It’s rough. But you’re not stuck. This guide walks you through reclaiming your finances with clarity, humor, and no judgment. Let’s turn this pain into power.
July 31, 2025 Jack Hawkins