relationship advice

You’re scrolling through your phone after a long day, enjoying a rare quiet moment—until that familiar Venmo notification pops up. Your best friend’s name flashes on the screen, attached to a charge for gas money or “drinks last weekend.” The catch? You never agreed to split those costs in the first place.

When your grandmother passed away and left you $80,000, the room felt quiet except for the shuffle of papers and a soft breath of relief. Now you’re holding onto a gift meant just for you—and your husband insists it’s “our” money. If you’re wondering whether you’re wrong to keep it separate, you’ve come to the right place. Let’s unpack how inheritances are treated, what you can consider, and how you and your spouse can move forward with clarity.