You set up a power of attorney because you trusted your relative and wanted a little help managing bills or handling finances. At the time, it felt like the smart move, but now something doesn’t feel right. Money is moving in ways you don’t recognize and some transactions just don’t add up. It’s an uncomfortable place to be, especially when it involves family. Still, if something is off, you’re not powerless here. Here's how to figure out what’s happening and protect yourself.