Money and family make strange bedfellows, and nowhere is this more apparent than when a well-intentioned loan transforms into a source of festering resentment for both parties. One gives the nephew a $5,000 loan with visions of graduation caps and promising futures, only to discover those funds financed RGB lighting and a graphics card powerful enough to render entire digital universes. The betrayal stings, but before writing off both the money and the relationship, there's a path forward that addresses the financial wound as well as the emotional fallout. The conversation can be awkward, but it's the only way out.