The call doesn’t come with a warning. A stranger asks for a payment due, uses your full name, and recites numbers you don’t recognize as yours. At first, you assume it’s a mistake. When you finally investigate, the truth surfaces: a credit card was opened in your name by your mother, framed as help, justified as a shortcut to building credit. What you’re actually facing is a financial identity crisis. Debt collectors don’t care about family context, and credit bureaus don’t record intentions. They record liability. If you do nothing, the system assumes consent. This moment matters because the longer the debt sits unresolved, the more control it takes over your financial future.