At first, it might’ve seemed like a one-off thing. Maybe a wrapper or some small debris falling from above. But now it’s becoming a pattern. Items are regularly ending up on your patio, and it’s clearly coming from your upstairs neighbors. You tried to handle it directly by asking them to stop, but instead of fixing the issue, they got defensive or even hostile. Luckily, while it might seem like you’re stuck dealing with both the mess and the tension, you're not.